When Jared turned three years old, I determined that I was finally going to get him potty trained “for real.” Ever since Jared turned two, I have been going through phases of trying to potty train him and then giving up for months at a time. This time around, I decided on a strategy that would put my focus solely on Jared. We had just gotten back from our summer trip in the U.S. and I had a whole month before school would begin again.
So, I pulled out all of Jared’s diapers and told him, “Jared, these are the last diapers I am going to buy for you. When these are finished, you have to wear pull ups. When those are finished, you have to wear underwear.”
It took about a week and a half with a few setbacks along the way, but I can now officially say that Jared is potty-trained during his waking hours. We are still working on getting him potty trained during his naps and overnight. So far, he has woken up dry in the morning at least three times in the last three weeks. The best thing about the whole process is that Jared is finally on board with the activity. He really wants to be a big boy and not use diapers any more.
Besides the potty training, we’re finally getting Jared to eat his meals mostly on his own. He’s really becoming a day dreamer, and sometimes I can just see his mind go off into another world in the middle of a meal.
You can just tell there is a lot on his mind. Recently, Jared decided to memorize the alphabet song and sometimes goes around the house singing it. He has also memorized his first Bible verse. We just started to do devotions with the boys each night. And a verse that I’ve been reading to Jared recently is from Psalm 118:24.
“This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it.”
Sometimes that verse has really come back to bite me. There have been times when I wake up in the morning grumbling to myself about all that I have to do that day. I feel this dark cloud hovering over my head. Then I hear Jared quoting Psalm 118:24 with a big smile on my face, and I know God’s using him to tell me something.
I’m so glad that God can use little Jared to remind me to be glad for each day that He has given us on this earth.